I have no job, no money and I’m getting frustrated …

Dear Gillian,

I have a few things that I wanted to talk to you about. I have brought Louise L Hay books and I have brought some other things that are helping me.

My problem is I have no job, so I have no money and I’m getting frustrated. I have been successful in getting interviews, but no luck with jobs at the moment.

I do affirmations everyday and thinking positive, but sometimes I get down and feel negative.

I do often remind myself to think positive and be supportive to myself, but I feel like its hard. I have a supportive boyfriend who has helped me, but like I say I feel like I’m getting nowhere.

I think its to to do with not being good enough to get a good job and also letting go of the past and the mistakes I have made regarding work. In the past I have had problems with the people I work with and left jobs, I don’t feel like I will find something that suits me.

My ultimate goal is to be a singer and I am working towards being professional, but I still need a job to support me in the meantime. Plus I have my family who I feel don’t support me and my mum sometimes goes over the mistakes I have made with leaving jobs. I feel like I have to please people and I want to move out of my mums home, but can’t because I don’t have financial security

I don’t know what to do when I get like this. I would appreciate any advice or affirmations or exercises that can help me

Dear Suzanne,

Good to hear from you.

I suspect that there is an emotional block or barrier that needs to be cleared away and that you are judging and criticising yourself harshly and you find this reflected in those around you.  Your affirmations are only able to reach a certain level (thus you can get the interviews) but then they get blocked and you sabotage yourself.  Without seeing you one to one it is difficult to work out what the barrier/block maybe, however, it may well be that because you are not going for what you really want to do (singing) then you do not really want the job anyway and sabotage yourself.

Whatever is going on is obviously sub conscious if you are doing all the positive stuff and not being aware of it.  The frustration only adds to the problem.

When you get into a situation like yours it becomes very difficult to affirm with any belief that good things will come.  It is the trust and belief coming from your heart, not your head that is important. You really need to do a workshop or work with a friend to enable you to clear out all the negativity and move forward with your life.

With funds being tight I suggest you use some of the techniques on this website, I will send you some others and use the affirmation “I now easily release the pattern of behaviour in me that has contributed to this situation” also “everything I need now comes to me easily” and trust that whatever resources you need will arrive.