Tag Archives: romance

Valentines Day and Getting over your EX

Affirmation of Self Love and Acceptance

Getting over your ex

Today is Valentines Day, it is almost impossible not to know that with all the advertising and marketing going on.  It can be fun, it can be annoying, it can be disappointing and particularly upsetting if you have broken up with someone you thought was the one.  So apart from putting on a brave face, telling yourself it will get better and trying not to hope that he or she may suddenly have a change of heart and whisk you away – what can you do?

You can release yourself by releasing them from your sub-conscious.  It really only requires a change in perspective but can reduce any pain dramatically and open the door to a new relationship.  Whilst you carry the pain and sadness of a past relationship you are unavailable to someone who might just rock your world.  It’s like having a closed sign in your shop window.  Hypnosis proves really useful in this respect. So if you want to start feeling better and moving on  Relationships – Letting Go / Getting over your Ex is an audio hypnosis designed to help release past relationships in a quick and effective way now!

 

Valentines Day Relationship Advices

Valentines Day – Tips to Keep the Flame of Love Burning Bright

With Valentines day fast approaching here are my tips to help keep the flame of love burning bright. I call them the three C’s to represent the three principles underlying this advice. Communication, Consideration and Consolidation – use these on Valentines Day ( or any day)  to fan the flames of love! Continue reading

Relationship Action Consultation

Relationships are often a huge problem for people. It doesn’t matter if you are married, single, divorced or widowed, dating, looking for that perfect partner or have no clue how to attract genuine love and avoid heartache.  We all want love in our lives and we all deserve a happy, healthy loving relationship.

In these one to one Relationship Action Consultations Gillian helps people identify negative patterns that can lead to self-sabotage or beliefs that can lead to bad choices.  You will cover the subliminal signals and messages that you give out to others whilst totally unaware and set about changing those so that you can attract a mutually loving, healthy relationship that brings you joy.

Sometimes heartache is overshadowing our lives from a traumatic break up or the death of a loved one.  The sense of loss and grief can be intense and whilst it is a natural part of life experience if it goes on too long then it needs to be dealt with.

As an example:

An amazingly beautiful and successful young woman came to see Gillian, she had been engaged to a man she loved many years before and believed they would be together for ever.  Unfortunately he died and even though many years had passed she still was not dating, felt sad and very alone.  She had stored many of his belongings in boxes in her home and she organised an annual memorial reunion for friends from a sports club he belonged to.

She knew she was stuck but had no idea how to free herself.  Within two sessions she started to consider her future, a couple more and she cleared her house of his stuff passing it to family and friends who would appreciate it rather than having it sit in boxes.  She then decided to make the next reunion a final one (something that other attendees especially family appreciated).

This amazing woman is now a wife and mother.

Has she forgotten her original fiance?  No, he will always have a place in her heart but now she remembers the joy rather than the pain and has a happy family which she is also sure he would have wanted for her.

When you are in a dark place it is hard to imagine it ever getting lighter.  Be reassured it does but if you feel stuck then let us assist you kick-start your healing. Contact Gillian now to find out more or to book your consultation.

We also have a range of Hypnosis downloads available if you want to try something for yourself now.

Romantic Relationships

cartooncoupleheartHave you honestly got time  for a romantic relationship?

It is amazing how many people say they want a relationship but if you look at their lives they do not seem to have room or time for one.  If that is you – make space for that someone special not just in your heart but in your home and your life.  If your home is cluttered, perhaps you have lots of photographs of you and your ex partners or maybe you spend a lot of time on hobbies or work activities then when and how will you find time for that special someone?  Don’t wait Continue reading

Love Affirmations List

Love Affirmations ListLove Affirmations List

“I am surrounded by love”

“I love and accept myself exactly as I am”

“I know that I deserve love and I accept it now”

“I am a loving, beautiful creative person and this is reflected in my
relationships with others”

“Loving myself unconditionally brings healing and an abundance of love into my life”

“The love I give out returns to me multiplied”

“Love flows through my body, shines in my face and radiates out from me in all directions”

Loving yourself is key to positive change take a look here for more on how to love yourself.

Finding Genuine Love - Hypnosis Download

Letting go of the past – Hypnosis Download

Back to List of Affirmations

Hypnosis

Hypnotherapy Mind/Body Sessions or Downloads

healing-hypnosisHypnosis can be a useful tool.  Many have been put off by various stage and television hypnotists that seem to take control of peoples’ minds and make them look foolish.  The interesting thing is that we have all experienced hypnosis often without realising it.  For instance when you arrive at your destination having driven a long distance but you don’t remember having driven the last 10 – 20 minutes. The same can happen whilst watching television and you kind of zone out or seem incapable of turning off the TV and going to bed.  Many have zoned out whilst standing in a queue. Continue reading

Why can’t I have a decent guy in my life …

Dear Gillian,

I am so tired of going out with men who are either married, control freaks or just take advantage of me. Are there any good, trustworthy single men out there?  I am an honest, generous person so why is this happening to me? My friends have had similar experiences, so it’s not just me! Why can’t I have a decent guy in my life? Continue reading

I left my husband and two children …

Dear Gillian,

15 months ago I left my husband and two children.  My husband was a workaholic and I worked full time.  My husband discovered he had cancer it scared the life out of me, we moved house to lesson his load with work but nothing changed that was 3 years ago .  My children got older and I realised that my life was going by and I was living the stressful life that my husband lived, he neglected me by coming in late from work etc . Continue reading

So stressed I feel like I have not slept forever …

Dear Gillian,

This may sound pathetic but I am so stressed right now, I feel like I have not slept for ever. I work regular hours but lately I find it a real struggle getting through the day.  I am tired and feel under pressure and stressed almost constantly. I live alone but have a relationship with a nice guy.  Continue reading