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I need help NOW! Special

Sometimes we go through difficult times with our relationships, work or health and we need to make some sense of it all and get some peace.

Many find it hard to take the much needed time or finance out to do a workshop but the need for relief, solutions and guidance can be at their highest level.

coffee2The solution:

Have a 30 minute telephone or Skype personal session to deal quickly and effectively with whatever is going wrong or feels uncomfortable in your life.  The session can be anonymous if you prefer.  Don’t suffer in silence or allow the tension to build, you can book a session by clicking the button below.  I will then contact you with available times including weekday evenings 7.00 – 9.00 pm, and Weekend day times.  We will then have a session for just £39.

With 20 years experience and more effective techniques than I could carry if they were physical tools, I am here to help when you need it most.  Book your space now.

3 ways to deal with anger

Safe to Look within - AffirmationAnger is one of those emotions that not only makes the individual experiencing it feel very uncomfortable but those who are witness to it also. When someone gets angry it is generally seen as a lack of control as in he/she is losing it; or bad, dangerous and unpredictable. Problems relating to anger typically arise whenever emotions have been suppressed or misdirected. 
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Feeling overwhelmed? 3 ways to deal with it.

Grief UpsetWe all experience challenging times in our lives. Sometimes when bad things happen it can be hard to carry on. There are obvious times when emotional overwhelm can occur like the loss of a loved one, relationship break-up, loss of job or threat of redundancy. These are times when most people can appreciate you may be going through a difficult time. However, there are times when to the outside world things look good, at such times when your inner reality does not match outer appearances the whole situation can seem worse. Continue reading

Valentines Day and Getting over your EX

Affirmation of Self Love and Acceptance

Getting over your ex

Today is Valentines Day, it is almost impossible not to know that with all the advertising and marketing going on.  It can be fun, it can be annoying, it can be disappointing and particularly upsetting if you have broken up with someone you thought was the one.  So apart from putting on a brave face, telling yourself it will get better and trying not to hope that he or she may suddenly have a change of heart and whisk you away – what can you do?

You can release yourself by releasing them from your sub-conscious.  It really only requires a change in perspective but can reduce any pain dramatically and open the door to a new relationship.  Whilst you carry the pain and sadness of a past relationship you are unavailable to someone who might just rock your world.  It’s like having a closed sign in your shop window.  Hypnosis proves really useful in this respect. So if you want to start feeling better and moving on  Relationships – Letting Go / Getting over your Ex is an audio hypnosis designed to help release past relationships in a quick and effective way now!

 

Blue Monday? For many depression lasts all week,month or year.

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Depression, don’t put up with it act now!

The whole concept of Blue Monday was started by a travel company as an ad campaign a while back and now has become “official” covered by the BBC news this year.  For me the sad thing is this kind of attention almost belittles the ongoing problems of depression people feel obviously not just around one day or month of the year. Continue reading

Relationship Action Consultation

Relationships are often a huge problem for people. It doesn’t matter if you are married, single, divorced or widowed, dating, looking for that perfect partner or have no clue how to attract genuine love and avoid heartache.  We all want love in our lives and we all deserve a happy, healthy loving relationship.

In these one to one Relationship Action Consultations Gillian helps people identify negative patterns that can lead to self-sabotage or beliefs that can lead to bad choices.  You will cover the subliminal signals and messages that you give out to others whilst totally unaware and set about changing those so that you can attract a mutually loving, healthy relationship that brings you joy.

Sometimes heartache is overshadowing our lives from a traumatic break up or the death of a loved one.  The sense of loss and grief can be intense and whilst it is a natural part of life experience if it goes on too long then it needs to be dealt with.

As an example:

An amazingly beautiful and successful young woman came to see Gillian, she had been engaged to a man she loved many years before and believed they would be together for ever.  Unfortunately he died and even though many years had passed she still was not dating, felt sad and very alone.  She had stored many of his belongings in boxes in her home and she organised an annual memorial reunion for friends from a sports club he belonged to.

She knew she was stuck but had no idea how to free herself.  Within two sessions she started to consider her future, a couple more and she cleared her house of his stuff passing it to family and friends who would appreciate it rather than having it sit in boxes.  She then decided to make the next reunion a final one (something that other attendees especially family appreciated).

This amazing woman is now a wife and mother.

Has she forgotten her original fiance?  No, he will always have a place in her heart but now she remembers the joy rather than the pain and has a happy family which she is also sure he would have wanted for her.

When you are in a dark place it is hard to imagine it ever getting lighter.  Be reassured it does but if you feel stuck then let us assist you kick-start your healing. Contact Gillian now to find out more or to book your consultation.

We also have a range of Hypnosis downloads available if you want to try something for yourself now.

I am 50 and feel I have no future …

Dear Gillian,

I stumbled across your website at just the right moment: as you say, the universe sends us what we need! I turned 50 earlier this year and the whole process of looking backwards and realising that I have far more of a past behind me than future in front of me has raised a lot of sadness. I feel I have no future, Continue reading

I just want someone to love? …

Dear Gillian,

I really want to have a loving relationship with someone.  I have had relationships in the past but they have never worked out.  It feels like I have been on my own forever.  My life feels incomplete and I feel sad when I think that I am missing out on something and that if I don’t do something about it I will always be alone. I just want someone to love. Continue reading

I have a friend who has been told he is dying …

Dear Gillian,

I have a friend who had surgery because of a brain tumour and was told he does not have long to live.  He is constantly sad and feels helpless.  I gave him a pep talk and promised him some literature that could help on the road to recovery and prolong his life.  He is not familiar with spirituality and the power he has within.  I was wondering if there is any literature or other ways for him to begin with that he can understand and relate to.  Can you please help? Continue reading