Tag Archives: self esteem

I have no job, no money and I’m getting frustrated …

Dear Gillian,

I have a few things that I wanted to talk to you about. I have brought Louise L Hay books and I have brought some other things that are helping me.

My problem is I have no job, so I have no money and I’m getting frustrated. I have been successful in getting interviews, but no luck with jobs at the moment. Continue reading

The only change I can realistically make is to resign myself to being unlovable …

Dear Gillian,

I am hoping you can help I am not sure what to do.

Some time ago I read some of Louise’s books and in the last few weeks I have been using ‘Power thought’ cards for daily affirmations and felt some benefit from this. However, in the last few days I have found an increasing resistance, i.e. As I repeat the affirmations my inner voice keeps telling me I am just lieing to myself/deluding myself. My experience of reality does not reflect my affirmations and it is not changing/cannot change for me. Continue reading

I am an alternative practitioner but embarrassed to charge customers …

Dear Gillian,

I am writing to you as you run workshops and see clients one to one.  I don’t run workshops but I do see clients and I feel uncomfortable when I ask them to pay. I give aromatherapy massage and sometimes Reiki.  Someone actually said to me the other day “how do you have the nerve to charge £40 you should do this for free”.  I find it hard to cover all my costs but should I reduce my prices? Continue reading